(This is a chapter from the blogger MURAT RENAY’s first book THE UNSAID-SÖYLENMEYEN)
Due to your knowledge about gays,
am sure that from now on you’ll stare the guys around you much more carefully. And who knows maybe you’ll spot the gays better than you dbefore.Ok but where are these gays? Where do they live?
Not in the outer space
To see the gays as a minority is correct in some
. aving a gay identity may him to a basket besides of his/her other modalities but
On a rough calculation if we want to set a number for gay people, in the countries conservative society’s pressure is intense like Turkey, we must consider
for the gays who are (out) and also consider the same(or ) for the gays in heterosexual camouflage (out of necessity). If you think about adding the am not gay”, this fast-growing numbered calculation becomes really annoying to homophobes.
One night when was gay
One man’s staring to another does not always mean that he’s gay of course but because gay men can’t express their feelings/appreciation as well as a straight guy in this matter the eyes
very important. Eyes are the gay man’s secret way of talking. The gays check out a cab or bus driver’s hair, neck, hand, veins on his arm and on their memory (if they are sure that nobody is watching them of course). This small details can be a real turn-on for them. If they are caught on action during this
sheer delight, they can look the other way and pretend as if
say that sometimes they get a positive reaction from these so-called straight guys. I mean the gays’ driver-worker wet dream isn’t always absurd.
For many gays the straight guys who are unconcious of their manly beauty
wandering around just to tease them. Of course these guys are supermodels, they are just ordinary guys and they don’t intend to tease any gays(!) but to say that their natural manly beauty (their muscled arms or legs, rich eyelashes, beautiful eyes, beards and bony handsome faces) mostly appreciated by gays not wrong. Infact one gay’s fancying another guy does not always require muscles godlike faces or body. The grocery store owner of your district, the office boy at work or the boy next door who likes to wear gray tracksuit (total turn-
on for me 🙂 ) to the gym
or any other details like these. To be honest, we believe in “come as you are” philosophy where these gays
These peeking gays are everywhere. Your single
, your colleague, guy from the gym, anyone can be gay! Nobody’s safe! 🙂
Of course this is only a figurative speech. If no one harasses another, there’s nothing wrong
. A straight guy can stare another guy because of envy maybe. for any sexual urge in every glance.
The biggest proble
m is the heterosexual (or infact bisexual) guys who are into these kind of sexual relations
for ithaving them as dirty faggots like he not one of “that”
To taste this forbidden fruit alltogether is absolutely delicious that’s for sure but when it comes to respect
*This piece is a chapter from Murat Renay’s book SÖYLENMEYEN(THE UNSAID).
Special thanks to Uğur Mehter (@mehterr on Twitter) for his help in translation.